Thursday, July 29, 2010 at 6:13pm

When I arrived at St. Elizabeth Church on Katie’s and Noah’s wedding day, Katie’s father welcomed me with the story of his BMW he bought and picked up in Munich. I told him that I used to live only 15 minutes away from the BMW head quarter. That was my start. A start with a smile on my face and a lot of fun ahead of me. When the day ended the two families made feel that I was not just the wedding photographer who has done his job. I left them as a friend. Thank you Katie and Noah.
Ceremony: St. Elizabeth Church
Reception: The Brown Palace
Flowers: Brown Palace Flowers








Monday, July 26, 2010 at 5:24pm

In July the big three, ABC, ISES and NACE finally came together for a joint meeting at the Denver Botanical Gardens. ABC stands for the Association of Bridal Consultants, NACE stands for National Association of Catering Executives and ISES stands for International Special Events Society. It was a great party. The topics included: composting at any event, sustainable food and menu ideas, eco-friendly wedding dresses and sustainable décor and floral.





Wednesday, July 21, 2010 at 2:48pm
I received a lot of responds yesterday on first part ” How to find a good wedding photographer”. Here is now part 2:
- Advertising in magazines – I did it, many photographers use ads to get their name out and you should start here to find one. I can see the fun, you just got engaged and now you are sitting with all your girlfriends, a bottle of wine and a bunch of wedding magazines in your apartment planning the big day. Here is a thought; Every town has this one restaurant everyone is talking about, but you just can’t find it. They don’t have a website, they don’t advertise. When you finally get the phone number to make reservations, you are informed that they are booked out for the next three weeks. How does this work? Good service, great products and a good name does not need advertising. People start talking about it. So listen to your friends, they might have name for you.
- Meeting with the photographer - “10 questions to ask your photographer when you meet with him the first time.” Oh, we vendors love those forms in the magazines. Sometimes I’m tempted to write an article: 10 tips on how to find a good wedding magazine! Believe me these forms wouldn’t be one of them. Don’t get me wrong, those questions are a start but they won’t tell you anything about the photographer. We all know those question catalogs and we all have the answers ready for you. Please ask new questions, personal questions which are important to you and your event. Bring your mom and your fiancee to the first meeting. Four eyes see more than two and six eyes see more than four. I always encourage my brides to bring their fiances and their moms to the first meeting with me. I love to talk to them to introduce my services and more importantly, myself. Three people ask more questions than only one… and let me tell you there is no such thing as a stupid question, there are only stupid answers so listen to how the photographer answers.
- Slide shows during your wedding reception – lifetime warranty on your wedding album – second photographer at your wedding and other promises. This point is a big one. Let’s be frank: You hired me as your photographer and not as an entertainer for the wedding reception. Here is another inside scoop for you: Those instant slideshows at the reception have only one purpose for the photographer: advertising. I don’t think you would like the DJ having a big banner hanging across the dance floor with his name and phone number on it, so why would you want a table in the room, surrounded by half of your guests, with a laptop in the middle playing photos of your wedding? No one pays attention to your wonderful reception party anymore, because they are all kept busy by the photographer and his little commercial break. Lifetime warranty on your wedding album – I recently heard this one, so I thought it’s worth talking about it. What does lifetime actually mean? My life, your life, the lifetime of my company? Honestly I have no idea. So here is what I came up with and this is how everyone should handle it: If something happens with your album and it is not your fault, the photographer should take care of it! – Good wedding books come with a warranty by the supplier… I believe it is something you should talk about with your photographer, but I as a photographer would not use this for marketing. A warranty is something that varies with the manufacturer. Photographers should work with companies that extend warranties as a matter of course just like it’s taken for granted that I will bring a camera to the wedding I shoot. – Second photographer or assistant – This person has a name. So ask for his or her name. He or she should be an experienced photographer as well, ask for the portfolio also. This is just basic knowledge, but I don’t know how often I heard the story that the second shooter turned out to be the husband or wife, who just had a camera hanging around his or her neck. My second shooter has a name and a portfolio. So ask questions about the second shooter.
- Uncle Harry – May I introduce to you America’s busiest photographer: Uncle Harry is still in business and his name stands for all the friends and relatives who have a camera, like to take photos and offer the wedding couple their help. We thank you for that uncle Harry, but No Thank You! We want to be sure uncle Harry has the same fun time at your wedding as does everybody else in the family. Your wedding day is a very special day. It is the story of two families joining together and a story about love and emotions. Do you really want this to be documented by someone with no experience? Uncle Harry has the tendency to only photograph his family side. He does not know the other people at your wedding, so they are not important to him. The time will come when he will ask himself the question: Do I still need to be the photographer, or can I change to be a guest? I promise you he will decide to be a guest. Photos from the cake cutting will be taken from his table. To bad that you didn’t hear him calling you to turn around and smile into the camera. The details of your wonderful decor, uncle Harry didn’t think that this was important to you, so he wouldn’t waste any time on photographing it. To get everything on the memory card he just lowered the resolution for the photos, but he promises you that the photos still look good on your computer screen.
- It’s your day, your show – The documentation of your day should be the photographer’s priority number 1. Hire a photographer with this in mind and not just be there to fill up his portfolio. Let the photographer be “the fly on on the wall” who tells your amazing wedding day story. The best complement I received from a client was “your photos showed me the most wonderful moments of my wedding day I didn’t even know that I had them”. This is what wedding photography should be all about. Creating memories of a very special day in the life of two families. Talk about this when you meet with your photographer the first time. Tell him about your family, yourself and how the two of you met. A good photographer will ask you this anyway, he wants to get to know you and your family before he shoots your photos. He wants to get a picture of you that helps him understand what you are looking for. Another very simple hint that tells you that your photographer cares: He makes notes while you are talking. He is not just writing down your name, the date and the name of the venue.
You deserve the best for your special day, go out and find the perfect photographer for your wedding.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010 at 10:06am

Ok I’m a wedding photographer, so why should I give you advice on how to find other wedding photographers than me? My answer: Because I care! I care about good wedding photography. I have seen to many bad wedding photos and heard to many sad stories about wedding photography gone wrong. Here is some inside advice how to separate the good from the bad.
Beside the groom on your side who is #1 and your mom #2, the photographer should rank #3 when it comes to the most important person at your wedding. … and this is probably not a surprise for you coming from me: I am a firm believer that this is the area you cannot skimp on. I want to spare you the speech about what is left when the food is eaten and the guests are gone… etc. I’m sure you get the picture.
So how do you find this perfect photographer? Well, first take a look at your budget. Okay, there are different methods used to figure out how much to budget for the photographer. I don’t believe in this. It will not guaranty you to find the perfect one. It just makes sense for the accountant. I photographed weddings where the bride spend half of her budget on the photography and I also was hired for weddings where I was a tenth of the budget . This only gives you an idea on how the importance of photography varies from client to client.
Here are my tips on how and where you find the perfect photographer:
- Google – Of course this should be a great resource to find everything you need for your wedding- but beware! All the photographers listed on, let’s say the first 2 pages, tell you one thing and one thing only: ” I am an expert on how to work this search engine. I spend most of my time and my marketing budget to stay on the first 2 pages of this search engines. I have to ask for a lot of money, because this is a very expensive marketing concept.” - Trust me, been there, done that. The photographers you like and the ones who secure your perfect wedding photo with a lot of experience may be further in the back of your Google search result. So go there and give them a chance.
- Wedding consultants – Ok here is a great approach to help you to plan your perfect wedding day. When a bride comes in my studio. My first question to ask is always: Do you have a wedding consultant? If the answer is no, my second question is: Why do you do this to yourself, your best friend or your mom? These are the ones who will be in charge when you don’t hire a professional planner. Believe me they all will check out after the dancing has begun, then the photographer and the DJ have to take over to keep the party going. My other favorite one is: “Oh the venue has a coordinator.” – Here is an inside tip for you, the venue coordinator is only doing one thing: Making sure that your wedding starts on time and that you are out of the venue on time. They take care of the venue not your wedding. Now you will probably wonder about the extra cost the consultant will charge you. Believe me the consultant will probably save you more money than they will charge you for their service. In case you wonder, there is a photography part in this tip: All the photographers a consultant will refer to you are pre approved and within your budget. The only decision you have to make is whether you like the person or not. No trial and error involved.
- Photos – This is an obvious one… of course the photos will tell you who is good and who is not, but is this enough for you to make a good decision? I don’t think so. Think about this: The photographer will be the person who spends more time with you on your wedding day than your fiance. Now think about all the people you would like to be surrounded with on your wedding day. I was hired for this wedding in Denver 3 years ago. When I arrived at the venue, I walked into the bride’s suite, like I always do, expecting the bride to be inside the suite. But she was not. Instead I found 12 women about to get dressed or applying their make up staring at me. You could hear a needle fall in the room when they looked at me. Don’t get me wrong everyone was decent, but very surprised by my sudden presence. None of them expected a guy my size just walking into the room. As I was about to explain myself, the bride showed up. Realizing what just happened, she put her arm round my shoulder laughing and introduced me: “Today, this is my best friend, Hardy, the wedding photographer.” This being said everyone was relieved and went on with what they were doing. This is what your wedding photographer should be on the day of your wedding: Your best friend.
- Questions about the equipment - Tools are important, I give you that. I have to admit I always have a little smile on my face when I see those photographer websites: “What is in my bag.” You find all this stuff they carry around. – Do you as a prospective client really want to know all that? – The questions that always come to my mind when I read this are: How do they get all this equipment fast enough from point A to point B, when the wedding couple is moving? If this photographer has to leave his equipment somewhere to follow the couple, will he/she more worried about the equipment being stolen or how to get the best photo of you? My photography teacher told me over and over again and he keeps doing it till today: “It’s not the camera who takes the photos, it’s the photographer.” A little story on the side. When I was a student, I once was on an assignment with my teacher. There was also this other photographer. He was about my age, maybe a little younger. He was decked out with cameras around his neck. One lens bigger than the other one. I myself had only one camera body and an old 35mm lens with me. I felt very small next to this guy. My teacher Hans noticed that I couldn’t take my eyes off this guy’s camera equipment. He pulled me to the side and said: “The most important truth in our job is, it’s not important what you have in your camera bag, it only counts what you have in your hand when you come out of the darkroom. Don’t judge a photographer by his equipment, take a good look at his/her photos.
- Friend’s referral – You have seen him/her work at your friend’s wedding. That is probably the best resource you can have. You see everything; how he/she works, you will see the photos after your friend’s wedding is over and you get the inside scoop on how the photographer handles the work on your friend’s album. I don’t think there is a better way to find a good photographer. Now, you only have to find out if you like him or her. Will he or she be your best friend on your wedding day? – Time to meet the photographer in the studio. Another little story: I met with this bride in my studio a couple months ago. She had her fiance and her mom on her side. We were right in the middle of a great talk about my favorite subject, the importance of wedding photography, when the bride stopped me. ” Oh you don’t have to convince me. I’m here to sign a contract. Tell them who you are and what you do”, and she pointed to her fiance and her mom. She went on: “I was a bridesmaid in one of the weddings you shot 2 years ago. I had you on the vendor list for my wedding by the time my friend’s wedding was over.” – I don’t think there is more to say about this.
I hope you enjoyed my tips so far, watch out for Part 2 this week.
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Thursday, July 8, 2010 at 5:33pm
If you want to keep the spark alive in your love life, then laugh together and muse over it later, says social psychologist Doris Bazzin. Madeleine and Jeff followed this to the tee. If I say their wedding was fun, I mean this in the full meaning of the word. I think there was not one moment when they didn’t smile or laugh out loud. Even I had a hard time sometimes to hold my camera straight, because they made me laugh. Thank you for a great day Madeleine and Jeff. Your wedding was very special.
Wedding coordinator: Muse Events






by Hardy Klahold
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